posted by
laylee at 01:15pm on 27/07/2010 under mother issues
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We may have had a small breakthrough with the whole mother situation. My sister just got a call from one of the retirement villages mum stayed in last year. Apparently one of their self-contained suites - the one that's like a bed-sit with a private kitchenette and en-suite - has become available and they've offered it to us. N is going to talk it over with mum and will have a look at it on Friday.
God I hope mum agrees to consider it. It would solve so many problems for us. We wouldn't have to fret and worry about her being in that great big house on her own and she'd still retain a large degree of independence because she's have her own sitting room, she could cook her owns meals and she'd only have to venture out into the common areas when she wants a bit of company.
Please keep your fingers crossed for us, we need all the good vibes we can muster!
God I hope mum agrees to consider it. It would solve so many problems for us. We wouldn't have to fret and worry about her being in that great big house on her own and she'd still retain a large degree of independence because she's have her own sitting room, she could cook her owns meals and she'd only have to venture out into the common areas when she wants a bit of company.
Please keep your fingers crossed for us, we need all the good vibes we can muster!
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My parents went through this with my Grandma two years ago. What a difficult situation. :(
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*crosses fingers for you*
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*hugs*
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I only wish there were some hope of getting my own mother into something similar (although at least she has carers come in every day now).
If she did agree, it would be such a huge weight off you and your sister. I shall keep everything crossed for you that I feasibly can.
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